Do you feel like giving up?..think again..are you handicap?..or are you normal, perfect person?..if your are perfect person please do watching the following video..





Above is about Nick Vujicic (know more about him here), he is a motivator with no arm and leg..but he never give up...

I post these videos here as a motivation to me, to all people around me..whenever we feel like giving up, please do remember that we are still lucky compared to Nick Vujicic..

p/s: still remember Amir?..

Last weekend i watched a programme in Discovery Channel; CHINA RISING. This programme was about how China’s People try to improve their English. They are really poor in English (i admit this because when i was there hardly to get any information since they don’t know English).

The programme showed that they realized the situation and they tried to improve their English no matter how. Very impressed! From younger to older they put themselves in difficult situation to learn English. The most important reason why they were really eager to learn is because Olympic Beijing. They went to English Camp, English Class etc. Uncle Yang registered to be a volunteer of Olympic because he wants to tell every single thing about China to foreigner. So he went to the class. He always speaks English with everyone, friends, family etc. He said to be good in English, we must be “tebal muka”. The good thing is his friends also very supportive (kalau kita, member ckp English salah sikit mesti dah gelak ejek, mcm mana nak improve??).

Other than that, there were about 700 candidates of Olympic’s Volunteer went to the English Camp. They were willing to spend a lot of money to enter the camp. Training in the camp was similar to military training. Very tough! The aim was to make them do what they don’t want to do (aku rasa ini la resepi paling berguna...perlu ajar buat mende yang tak suka untuk berjaya).

One of the motivation phrase during the camp that i like was: “No matter hard Math and English are, our parents’ sacrifice to raise us are harder” –yg ni mmg paling best la untuk diberi pada student (tukar sikit) -> “Sesusah mana Matematik dan Sains Komputer, susah lagi ibu bapa membesarkan anda”. Harap-harap diorang faham, maknanya walaupun susah Matematik dan Sains Komputer, anda perlu berusaha gigih kerana Ibu Bapa membesarkan anda lagi susah dan akan mengecewakan mereka jika anda gagal.

My friend said that China’s People develop themselves quickly because they have communist spirit. (i think communist spirit means, everything that we do must be faster than others- that’s what could i concludes according to what she said)

To my student: Do what you don’t want to do, only then you’ll be successful. What you don’t want to do?...think about it, remember: “Sesusah mana Matematik dan Sains Komputer, susah lagi ibu bapa membesarkan anda”

Ayuh Malaysian, no pain no gain!!!!

p/s: Masa jln2 di Dataran Lautan Bintang di Dalian, China, ada seorang pelajar hampiri aku dengan English yang pelat2 menyapa aku, lupa dah nama dia, tp dia bagitau dia adalah sukarelawan yang membantu para pelancong yang memerlukan bantuan. Aku tanya kenapa jadi sukarelawan, dia kata sbb nak improve English, aim dia nak jadi Navi nak keliling dunia, tu pasal belajar English. Aku tgk kat tangan dia ada buku English...kagum betul, sungguh bersemangat dan sanggup tebalkan muka..

Early Wednesday...rainy day..

while i'm driving to the office, my mind thinking about 'Live Life To The Fullest'...i try to figure out how to make my life to the fullest...i don't want just wake up early in the morning, prepare my daughter, prepare to work, boom baam doing work, come home, rest and do same cycle everyday...

i googled "life to the fullest"..so this is what i got (i do want to be positive always, but sometimes i can't..maybe because of environment??):

How to Live Life to the Fullest

Steps

1. Make a list of things you want to do before a certain birthday. For example, list thirty things you want to do before you turn thirty. Your list can be made up of places to visit, people to meet or befriend, skills to acquire, or just fun things to do. This way, you have some goals to aim at, and you can keep track of what you have done and what you still want to do.
2. Make a to-do list or a schedule every day! Don't just lay around all day without painting the fence, visiting Aunt Mary Ann, or finally taking that walk to the park. Have fun!
3. Remember "Carpe Diem" or "seize the day." - Live life in the moment. The only thing that is assured in life is this moment and death. So cherish every moment of life and make it worthwhile.
4. Try making life better for the less fortunate people in the world. They could be anyone, from an orphan in Africa to a pauper in Calcutta. Some dollars less in your account will not make a significant difference to you but will make an impact on someone's life. These are the deeds that make you happy in reality, knowing that you have made a difference.
5. Be comfortable with yourself. Love and accept yourself, even if others don't. Know who you are. You will naturally become an outgoing person if you can do this. Also, have an internal locus of control (an internal locus of control implies the belief that one is largely in control of the things that happen to her/him), meaning be who you are and stay true no matter the situation. Be strong and continue to grow your entire life.
6. Accept other people, even if they're different. Really different. You don't have to like everyone, just show acceptance and tolerance and you'll be cool with everyone (extremely important in connections later on). Also understand not everyone has your world view, thinks like you, or has the same values. But one thing everyone does want is to be treated kindly. You can't judge anyone else because you don't know what that person has been through and how it's affected them. Not everyone reacts to the same situations the same way. Some have more tolerance than others. Judging anyone is purely to organize your own little world into making a little more sense.
7. Find a purpose or meaning to your life. Whether that be a cause to help the world, religion, or just any kind of worthwhile goal (world domination only if you'll treat the world right).
8. Accept death. Yes, it can be scary. But it's going to happen, one day you will die. Let it echo through you, and you can begin to appreciate life. Trust you will be okay. Trust it or you'll go crazy.Live your life with the motto " If I die now I die happy ." Wouldn't it be nice if supposedly you would die now to know that many people would attend your funeral because you've been a great person ?
9. Stop caring what other people think about you. If you've done the previous step, then this one should be easy. Just apply the faith and trust in the fact that you will die someday, to you, and the fact that you were meant to be yourself no matter what other people say.

Tips

• Keep a diary or journal. It doesn't have to be fancy, or wordy, or confessional. Just make sure that you're recording information about your accomplishments. Even an ordinary day spent in a good mood is a kind of accomplishment. Whenever you feel as though your life is worthless, fraudulent, or otherwise rotten, refer to this diary as a much-needed reminder of happier times. More will come!
• Live each day as if it's your last! There's no day but today to do what you want.
• In this idealistic approach, it is also necessary to balance it with reality. Life is a balancing act, it requires constant effort.
• Stop Listening to anyone but yourself
• Clear up your mind every once in a while.
• Think positive! Avoid being surrounded by negative people.

Warnings

• Once you make a plan, follow it! There's no point in making a to-do list or a schedule if you aren't going to go through with it then don't do it.
• Do not whine about what you don't have. Enjoy what you have and desire, work towards what you want to have and you'll get it hopefully.
• Don't feel jealous of people who are either better looking or have more money, or for that matter have anything that you don't but desire. Try to achieve it by working hard and making things work for you. Beauty and materialistic things in life don't last very long. What lasts is your soul. So it is important to have a clean and beautiful soul.

minggu ni 2 kali baca berita org biasa2 dpt master..yg pertama Pakcik Teksi dpt Master Komunikasi (u mana lupa plak) then ke 2 Pakcik Jaga di UPM dpt Master Linguistik...

masing2 dah berumur, tapi tetap bersemangat sambung belajar..tiada istilah sudah terlambat..

bagi mereka "Pendidikan Sepanjang Hayat"..

aku buat entry ni untuk diri sendiri dan rakan2...mana la tau time tgh wat PHD nnt kalau terMalas harap2 entry ni mampu mengingatkan aku betapa bertuahnya aku yang bergelar pelajar sepenuh masa dibandingkan dengan mereka yang terpaksa mencuri masa belajar namun tetap berjaya..

tgh membaca paper, pahtu rasa bosan...saja gatal tangan googgle nama sendiri nak tgk list of paper dah publish...sekali terjumpa satu thesis ada org cite paper aku dan rakan2..hehehe..bangga jugak..ni pertama kali ni...hahahha...kena teruskan semangat nak wat research ni...ada can nak mohon jadi Prof Madya..hahahhahahahhahahahhahahahhahahaaaaaa, BERANGAN!!!!

ada org Sindrom M atas beberapa sebab:

1. Takde motivation - tak nampak apa faedahnya bila buat sesuatu menda atau rasa takut tak berbaloi kalau buat sesuatu menda..nak setelkan senang, perlukan jelaskan apa x-factor untuk trigger motivation tu...tapi nak laksana mungkin sukar
2. Azali - dah mmg sindrom M dah sebati dalam diri...susah la nak ubah...

ada org Sindrom R with limited T kerana:

1. Terlalu banyak perkara nak dikejar...semua penting, so kene buat list mengikut keutamaan dari segi dateline dan sebagainya

Aku pernah alami semua Sindrom ni silih berganti...tapi my current status adalah: Sindrom R with limited T...mmg haru btol le...masuk je office ada plak keje nak kene submit adhoc...huhuhuhu..plan nak study untuk Phd, tergendala sebentar..

to Awa, try to treat your sindrom as fast as you can..

M: Malas, R: Rajin, T: Time.....

Discuss, dusciss n discuss..so aku nampak ada sinar dihadapan..tadi baru lepas discuss dgn Prof Dr Rubiyah..aku akan kaji on Multimodel Biometric untuk propose Phd..hmmm..nampak ada harapan untuk lulus di peringkat UMP..sbb projek ni ada beberapa ciri yang agak kukuh iaitu:

1. Technofund
2. Attachment dengan Japan or UK (boleh pilih mana nak pergi)
3. SV orang yang terkenal dalam bidang ini
4. Center banyak kenal dengan prof2 terkenal spt Maria Patrou, boleh jadikan co-sv or reviewer..

Next setp, aku perlu kaji bidang ni dan propose...

Ya Allah, permudahkanlah urusan ini...

Hari ini Jumaat, 10 Oktober 2008 bersamaan 10 Syawal 1429 H aku nak mulakan kembali arena blogging yg teramat la lama ditinggalkan...

First dulu bermula dengan xanga masa tu tgh amik master...sbb boleh dikatakan ada masa lapang so mula lah berblog...then masuk keje sebagai lecturer..adooiii teramatlah takde masa lapang..lupa nak berblog....pernah sekali nak aktif semula..tapi dah blocked..

So hari ni lepas berYM dgn awa..aku decided nak start a new blog...sbbnya..baru rasa ada masa lapang...semlm baru hantar satu paper work yg aku amik masa lebih kurang 2 thn nak siapkan so baru terasa kelapangan tu ada...

Awa kata blog ni boleh ilangkan tensen wat keje...ada btol jgk tu..thats why i want to start a new one..cos after this i'm gonna pursuing another level of degree so would be a lot of pressure starting now..so i think i need something like medium to release tension...hopefully what awa said will help me a lot...